When I was promoting my "Let's Get Stuff Done" Con, one of my friends took my promo copy and forwarded it to a couple of local lists. Apparently drama ensued as some of the people balked at the notion of developing "leaders" within polyamory groups, or within the movement at large. On another list that I'm involved with, a similar story unfolded where someone who was a role model within her own community shunned the label of "leader".
I'm interested in knowing why that is, especially since I strongly believe that poly people need to have community leaders if we're going to take our "movement" to the next level.
This led me to start writing down my thoughts on how changing the status quo would benefit poly people as a whole, even though most poly people choose not to participate. I also started thinking about the current organizing efforts, and why progression towards our goals as a movement have been so damn slow.
P.S.: If you are easily offended by anything that challenges or criticizes the status-quo, please come back around August 30th. At that time, I will post the finale of this series, which outlines recommended steps on how to be a better leader.
Additional Disclaimer: This series is the result of conversations that I've had with fellow poly leaders, mixed with my own thoughts, experiences, and observations. While it seems that a lot of us have similar experiences and thoughts, these writings do not represent the beliefs of poly leaders as a whole. These writings are not meant to target specific individuals or organizations, but instead show how "the system" is defunct and needs a lot of TLC and fixing.
I wanted to take a moment to give everyone a heads up on the coolness that happened during the "Get Stuff Done" Conference that I held online last weekend.
Sadly, I wasn't able to do lessons on both days as I originally planned. I was called away on business and had to fly out on Sunday afternoon, leaving only Saturday for classes. Here's the lessons that I presented:
Leadership 101 (How to Fake Being A Well-Rounded Person): The attendees learned the importance of self-knowle
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Your group is ready to set forth on your journey. By now, you should have your compass (vision) and map (mission). At this point, you hit a major stumbling block - which route do you take? One member mentions taking the paved road, another wants the group to cross the river, and the third wants to travel through the woods. Between those options and the mountain path you are aware of, there's at least four options that you can take.
In addition to figuring out how to get to your destination, you realize there are other important decisions to be made:
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In high school and college, students have the ability to join clubs that focus on a hobby (i.e. debate or chess, etc.) or a niche in which they belong or hold an interest (i.e.
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Your group is ready to set forth on your journey. By now, you should have your compass (vision) and map (mission). At this point, you hit a major stumbling block - which route do you take? One member mentions taking the paved road, another wants the group to cross the river, and the third wants to travel through the woods. Between those options and the mountain path you are aware of, there's at least four options that you can take.
In addition to figuring out how to get to your destination, you realize there are other important decisions to be made:
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In high school and college, students have the ability to join clubs that focus on a hobby (i.e. debate or chess, etc.) or a niche in which they belong or hold an interest (i.e.
